Ok most of you figured it out, it was an April Fool thing Cindi asked me to do, Kayden and I both played along.
But lets cut to reality a moment. If you are looking for something funny, skip down two columns.
I have known Kayden almost two years now, seems a lot longer but we never even met in person until less than a year ago. The second year working with Kayden is when it all changed.
She was under great stress, she was scared and she needed someone and I was there. Our relationship changed, a lot. It became intensely personal, in the act of helping her I opened myself up as well, vulnerability in someone you care about has that effect. I know her fears, she knows mine and she has been there for me as well.
I have come to know her as both a very personal friend, family even and as a human being. I have had to bite my tongue many times when I wanted so badly to come to her defense. I know her, I know how bad it hurts her inside to read horrible things about herself that she wants desperately to refute and defend herself, but she simply can’t. I know who she really is that is why I stand by her steadfastly, and I know how privileged that makes me. She is highly intelligent, funny, exuberant and fearless, and obviously pretty, and when you combine it all she really is beautiful.
I know my role in Kayden’s life and I don’t think it will ever be that of husband even though I love her more than I have ever loved anyone on this earth outside my family, Tim Case and Felicia Fox. She is dead even with them. Truth be known I’d consider Kayden to be a perfect wife and a wonderful mother.
Kayden, I really do hope you get everything in life you dream of, you have made a positive difference in my life and I know that you will continue to do so and I am not ashamed to tell this to the world.
I really do love you, that was no April Fool.