Shalom!

@mharris

Keep trying to justify your bullshit….I’ll see your thirty or even three hundred porn chickies and raise you with thousands of qualified medical personnel.

Hate to break it to you…the cards on the table and what’s in my hand means you lose this rhetorical poker game. Four agamic aces can only be beat with a straight flush or royal flush and the closest you’re coming to either is the tidy bowl man.

Although in the videos she has made lately to post on her blog for VIP Connect Shy looks like she has aged a bit (although that may be because she isn’t wearing make-up) she still isn’t bad looking. I would still sleep with her if I had the chance. Maybe she will come back into performing and do a scene for Hogtied or Sex and Submission where she is tied up, suspended, gagged, whipped and caned while being fucked up the ass by a ten inch dick. I know a lot of men weren’t fans of Shy but I thought she was a decent performer and certainly cute as hell. 🙂

The pussy made of iron comment was rhetorical.

I understand you want people coming in to the biz to have accurate information. So do I. However, when thirty plus porn chickies claim their pussies get irritated more from condom use than bareback I have to think it is accurate. I can’t imagine thirty people that should know intimately whether three hours with a condom (lubed or not) causes excessive irritation over bareback would lie about it. One or two, yes but not thirty. Producers and performers both have said that the rate of condom failure in porn scenes (when they are used) is very high, one figure I read was as high as 30 per cent. A broken condom does not provide any protection. Before anyone brings in gay porn I have never watched any of that nor do I keep up on the gay porn interviews or press (if such things even exist). I am thinking about attempting to find a blog or somewhere (besides Twitter — I don’t think I can communicate in 140 characters or less effectively) that I can contact Wolf Hudson (who performs in both gay and straight scenes for Kink) and ask him about condom irritation to the ass when taking cock into it with a condom on it. However, that may be a crass thing to ask a performer on a public blog.

@mharris

Last GYN appointment doc assured me everything is “normal”

I don’t care how many 18+yo you have consensual sex with…i do care how many you spout this kool-aid to. Every time you spout this bullshit there’s better than even odds a young girl who’s considering the industry or new to the industry will use what you repeated to make what she thinks is an informed choice. Because docs ask questions the most brazen sextrovert is often uncomfortable with the most respectful thing you could do is STFU or provide medically accurate information.

The industry partyline of condom chaffing is their response to head off expensive regulations and absolutely fine in that venue. Its part of the tug of war to shift the cost of doing business to the stakeholder from the labor providing the service and risking their bodies.

When people post comments or sit on a barstool chatting up a potential partner via industry partylines they’re denying them the right to make an informed choice. People making informed choices based on accurate information is no threat to the industry when every performer who says no is just making way for those who will say yes.

BTW – with or without a well lubed condom pussy’s usually know they’ve been fucked. It doesn’t take a degree to understand the scientific principal of ‘friction’ and it isn’t rocket science that debris causes more friction hence the anal douche pre-scene vs avoiding vaginal douching prior because it strips the natural lube process which includes natural barriers to ward off invading microbes.

I am glad to hear that you have a great sex life and your pussy is evidently made of iron. Just because you and Monica Foster can fuck for long periods with a (I assume) properly lubed condom for hours on end and not get irritation doesn’t mean every woman is so fortunate.

For the record I support you keeping most details of your sex life private since that is your desire. I think everyone should have that right (and the right to not do so as well). I have also heard others say menopause caused a reduction of natural lubrication in the vagina which caused chafing even without a condom. As you said, it was cured with an appropriate lube.

@mharris

This response to my comment ….be a fucking man and just ask me to stretch that four inch dick and plow some dildos up yer ass…the worst that can happen is I’ll say no and you can always ask some else.

@mharris

Hate to break it to you…but my pussy is calling bullshit on your crap. I zealously guard the privacy of my bedroom yet can say the following without breaking privacy commitment with hubby who isn’t eligible for any small dick contests.

Intentional quickie stress fucks aside it’s a rare occasion when the penetration part of our activities is less than 15 minutes and always has been. Early menopause caused chaffing we never experienced through four years and two post pregnancy stints with condoms. This is easily cured with any number of our favorite lubes.

Biggest problem with condoms wasn’t a problem because he’s a patient man & I enjoyed every extra minute it took for him to get off while wearing a condom.

Just because it isn’t on film doesn’t mean it isn’t happening behind doors some folks prefer to leave closed to outsiders 😉