The gay male porn performer and douche who helped cyberbully adult star August Ames says he does not believe he played a role in her taking her own life.
“As a matter of public record, my comment [the cyanide one] was posted after August had chosen to take her life,” Jaxton Wheeler told gay news site TheSword.com.
In a stunning illustration of Wheeler’s utter lack of self-awareness, Wheeler continues to portray himself as the misunderstood victim: “I am disappointed my comments have been used to distract from my original issues [that] have inappropriately been attributed as the reason August chose to take her life.”
See, his issues are all valid and good, it’s just that the breeder dummies and homophobes who just don’t get it are being unconscionable ballbreakers!
Listen, buddy, August pleaded with tweeters to see her side of the story, giving clear examples to illustrate that her initial tweet on the subject of working with ‘crossover’ talent, if indelicately phrased, had been taken out of context and wrongly, needlessly politicized. But you and your pals chose to ignore those pleas, and trudged on, attacking and humiliating her. So, how about ‘fuck you’?
And what were this douche’s issues? Wheeler says, “All adult professionals have the same screening and testing protocols. As a performer, she knew that, but she put it out there to her half-million Twitter followers who didn’t. Now they believed it.”
Well, dumbass, you’re mistaken about that too. A high percentage of gay scenes are condom shoots, thus no test is involved. The performers are “sero-sorted”, either by the producer or by stepping off to the side with each other and giving their word tone another that, as far as they know they are or are not HIV-positive. The shoots that do demand HICV tests mainly require only a cheap, inaccurate, long window period antibody test — the kind that AHF does for free at its pharmacies. In Florida, some producers even send talent down to the nearest AHF to get tested. That is NOT the same level of testing as the “straight” dude of the industry. The ignorance is on that side of the fence, not the “straight” side.
And finally, no test is 100% foolproof. Nothing wrought by man will ever be. There will always be a small margin of error. Wanting to mitigate one’s risk of illness vis-a-vis whom they choose have sex with, or in any other way, is a fucking human right, not an act of bigotry.
A Douche, no Danish
In his interview with The Sword, the douche continued, “My heart goes out to her friends and loved ones, and to all affected by this. Hopefully, this allows us to reflect on the choices we make on social media. It may be anonymous, but real harm can be done.” Who’s “we” motherfucker? And you weren’t even a anonymous. And neither were those of her peers — performers which huge numbers of followers — who used her suffering as an opportunity to grandstand and tell August to check her privilege.
Paxton, did I mention you’re a total douche?
Wheeler has made his Twitter account private since receiving flack over his comments about Ames.
Martyrs
Wheeler has been a target of massive criticism since Ames’ horrible suicide death, and says he is “pleading with people on both sides to put to an end to the verbal abuse and threats made so freely every day, and in particular, those directed at me right now.” LOL Once again, you’re only piping up about the need to be nice online AFTER you and your swarm of PC bigots had your fun and it caused bad press for you. Get thicker skin, douchebag.
And one last word for TheSword.com, which wrote: “many crossover, gay and straight performers, and the gay community painted [Ames] as ill-informed and homophobic for amplifying the outdated belief that gay and bisexual men are threats to public health and safety.”
Wrong. 1) They didn’t “paint her”, they SAVAGED her. The drove her to fucking suicide. and 2), although I’m astounded that I even have to mention it: gay and bisexual men, and ‘men who have sex with men’ (MSM) have THE SINGLE HIGHEST RATE OF HIV INFECTION, and similarly large rates of co-infections such as Gonorrhea and Syphilis. That’s not homophobia; that’s reality. One is more likely to become infected by an MSM than anyone other than another MSM who also uses IV drugs and/or travels to Haiti. So, can the PR bullshit. Reality and science are not homophobic, or racist, or sexist. If the LGBT community is a little sore over the issue of its utter failure to get a handle on its medical issues over the last three decades, buck it up, buttercups. It’s not a problem of August Ames’ making, but your hypersensitive and butt-hurt lynch mob (and I don’t mean physically) IS something for which you are culpable as a community.
There’s only one victim in this tragic series of events, and it’s not the self esteem or PR ranking of sexually active gay and bi men.
And Paxton Wheeler is still a douche.
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for the record the much maligned (only in porn) antibody test is only a few days different window period than the Aptima HIV test. while it is true the window period was longer 30 years ago when AIM adopted the PCRDNA test, against the advice of the man who won the nobel prize for PCR technology…much has happened in 30 years. The antibody test Is the GOLD STANDARD test for a reason. The Aptima test will NOT detect an HIV positive person who is on antiviral meds and have lowered the viral load to an undetectable level. Thats why there are performers working today that are HIV positive, they monitor their viral loads and work accordingly. This is nothing new, its been happening for a while now and APAC and the FSC have already been confronted with this, suggesting that a P24 antigen test be required as well….at the very least.
All of this said the truth is that porn in Porn Vally is in its dying flutters, and deservedly so I cant think of a more deserving group of people to be jobless.
oh and Jaxton Wheeler and Jessica Drake should STFU they arent the victims they try to portray themselves as…on that we agree
It amazes me how Jessica Drake is still playing the victim card and still doesn’t see what she did wrong. She knows damn well the second the tweeted what you see below her fans would be on the attack against August.
Mike, I am glad the Elisa/Western Blot series is more sensitive than it was 15 years ago. As it stands now I would rely on it if I started fucking again (not in the movies, though). Because of the few days difference in detection and the fact that the Elisa/WB series detects any infection whereas the PCR-RNA only detects if HIV levels are high enough I think we should use both, probably every 14 days. A blood on a card test should also be done by each performer on each day he/she performs (my understanding is that is an Elisa-based test) if they are legally available for such use in the state they are performing in, according to a couple of Mike’s past posts in Georgia they are sold at Walgreens, I can confirm they are a prescription only product in Michigan and almost never stocked even for that purpose — maybe someone reading can stop in to a Walgreens, Rite Aid, CVS or some other large pharmacy in California, New Hampshire, Nevada and Florida to ask if they are stocked in their pharmacies.
They are taking her medical & mental history that has NOT been released by her husband or family & turning it into a weapon. Spinning it as a defense.
Which will come to bite them on the ass in the long run.
She apologized several times but it was not good enough for them. They just continued to pound her & call her all kinds of names.
Spinning it as a teaching moment & how they were educating her is a joke. Cause calling her a bitch several times is NOT a teaching tool.
Anyone who tried to defended her was instantly attacked as a homophobic. They were NOT wiling to listen. I saw their tweets all laughing at her pain including ChiChi and others.
NONE of them let up, ALL of them refused to accept her choice & apology.
They want to remove all the female performers right to say ‘no’ or refuse a scene. They want to remove our right to say no to scenes we determine for ourselves not to be worth the risk. They are taking consent away from us & that is rape.
How good can a scene be if you don’t like or trust the person you are having sex with in it?
Anyone who has eva spent more than 5 min on set with Jessica Drake knows what a bully she is. This newz isn’t new. It’s just a shame her behavior was left uncheck for so many years and it took August’s death for people to finally call Jessica out on her bullshit.
mharris you can get them on the internet…I have been using both for several years now…I got beat up for it when some bimbo claimed otherwise (she is in jail now fwiw…waiting to be tried for homicide, domestic abuse and other charges.)
And for the record I was in the biz for over 25 years and never had an STD as result…thats including ALL performers…. not even crabs a little common sense goes a long way, I would venture not one company in porn valley…not even condom only Wicked can match that record. Am I bragging…hell yes, I am proud of that safety record…one of my crew was even a GA OSHA compliance inspector…..that was by accident but he sure helped….Im thinking of writing a bit about my first year out of porn I have heard so many bullshit stories..like Dirty Bob claiming I had to sell all of my sites to satisfy a lawsuit….lord the bullshit that comes from morons in this biz….anyway hope you guys are all well, happy and enjoying life…I know I am….Love you long time….South
everybody calling out jessica drake for what she did but what about adriana chechik? why ain’t nobody saying shit about her tweets to august ames that day? she’s just a guilty. Why she get a free pass?
When I made my YouTube video and the associated post here on this website I didn’t realize that Adriana Chechik had tweeted as well or I promise you I 100% would have included her in my video. I promise I didn’t give anyone special treatment like some have implied. I just didn’t realize Adriana Chechik was one of the girls who was involved.
The issue with Jessica Drake is that she has gone way out of her way to appoint herself as an industry spokesperson, an advocate for talent…In reality she is just a lackey for The FSC and an attention whore she single handedly sunk any hopes of President Trump being investigated for sexual misconduct when she just had to throw herself in the limelight by claiming SHE was offered 10K..true or not and honestly I doubt it HIGHLY (as apparently do most Americans) face it Trump can and has done WAY better than Jessica Drake and didn’t pay for it. Jessica is the only one claiming he solicited her for prostitution and America didn’t buy it…after all in their eyes she would do a midget gangbang for a thousand bucks and why would Trump offer her 10K when he can get way better for free? With porn chicks its always about making themselves feel like they have value which comes down to paying them for sex……and THIS is the person the FSC wants to hold forth as the spokesperson for talent? Please….
Mike, I remember when that idiot claimed you didn’t require VD testing on your set. If I recall I gave her the lecture of a lifetime right here on Mike South (like she read it but it was still quite the lecture). I hope Jessica (the murderess, not Jessica Drake) likes five bubba guard gang bangs, she is certainly getting one every night and I bet all of the dicks involved are Coke can thick and ten inches long or more — I bet she needs Depends now to keep her shit from falling onto the floor with all that bubba dick she is getting. I am also glad the self-tests for HIV are available online now. Hopefully porn producers order them by the truckload and use them on their sets.
As for your first year of retirement, that should be an interesting read. Let’s excoriate Dirty Bob for claiming you sold all of your sites to cover a lawsuit (if he would take a look at your Twitter he would see you are still selling those scenes on Manyvids — not possible if you sold the scenes on your websites). Also, go catch your limit of Red Snapper and (Ari) Bass, bashing the latter over the head with a beer bottle and slapping him with a flip flop. You can serve those Red Snappers instead of ham or turkey at your Christmas dinner table (with that smashed beer bottle front and center on your mantle as a trophy of your scumbag hunting days).