I have been on sets where the suitcase pimp becomes violent. After his arrest or ass kicking. Amazingly how the victim aka the porn girl jumps all over the people protecting her or pulling the suitcase pimp off. Usually screaming that you’re hurting him or he did not mean it or some other malarkey.
The issue is girls that have been beaten down by society and the industry it’s self, their extremely vulnerable to the advances of some serious sick men. The guy is nice at first gaining their trust. I knew of one guy in the early 90’s that makes War machine look like a prince. The industry has been brushing these incidents under the rug and in some case protecting these guy. If you’re a good money earner for the studio Male wise no one ever hears about it. The victim gets some medical attention and by Friday its forgotten she off getting high.
Non of these girl enter the business without baggage be that a broken home or from a family of domestic violence to start with. For many this behavior is a continuation of home life they know no different.
This is much more a society issue then it is a porn issue. Porn just seems to attract more bottom feeders. The situation is not nearly as bad as it was in the 90’s and early 2000 partly I think due to a bit more of a lax view by society on porn the younger generations just don’t care as much peer wise.

Very few of these women sat in high school dreaming of being a porn star. Stories very but broken homes are pretty common.

Thank you for taking this occasion to deviate from your policy of not commenting on posts.

“This point you are trying to make and say others in porn are saying amongst themselves seems to me only to suggest how much pornland has to learn about not blaming victims.”

I’m assuming your targeted audience is porn yet the same is true everywhere.

It’s not my fault but it is my responsibility hits too close to home today. August 15, 2012 our daughter called asking to we move in. We said yes looking forward to seeing more of her and our grandson. We welcomed the boyfriend we didn’t like in our blissful ignorance of the abuse and it’s extent over four years.

“Why didn’t you say no? What the fuck is wrong with you?” “You know better than that!” My August 28th reaction to her explaining how she wound up spending the day dodging the bullets that hit our police impounded Tahoe and likely facing jail for weapons enhanced felony drug charges.

Having a great lawyer to defeat the charges nor two years time have begun to erase the haunting image of her face as those words made a victim blaming grand slam I was then ignorant to.

The problem with these cases is that we judge the moment of impact, without measuring what was going on before the “accident” happened.

Many girls who have been beat within an inch of their lives (or killed) are not on their first round in the ring. It’s been reported that Christy suffered physical abuse before. The real issues here are ones of personal choice, fear, and a whole bunch of other things. This guy didn’t get up one morning and suddenly turn into a wife beater, it’s something that was in him and had already slipped out before.

The victim, unless in a random act crime, almost always has at least some part in what went down. If you park your car in front of the 7/Eleven and leave the doors unlocked and the keys inside, don’t be shocked if it gets stolen while you get your slurpee. While people should not steal and the theft is wrong, clearly you as the victim do have a part to play in it. You could choose to take the keys and lock the door, and then the crime is much harder to commit.

The first time a girl gets hit, it’s a crime and maybe even a life lesson. When she goes back and takes a second, third, and fourth round of the abuse, it’s a tragedy. Finding ways to fix that tragedy before it happens would go a long way to ending these horrible stories.

I would suggest Richard Abowitz read a little kids fairy tale known as “The Boy Who Cried Wolf.”