Comments on: In My Perfect World… https://mikesouth.com/julie-meadows/in-my-perfect-world-2969/ The institute for the advance study of insensitivity and pornography Fri, 20 Nov 2009 06:05:50 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2 By: MikeSouth1226 https://mikesouth.com/julie-meadows/in-my-perfect-world-2969/#comment-2371 Fri, 20 Nov 2009 06:05:50 +0000 http://www.mikesouth.com/julie-meadows/in-my-perfect-world-2969/#comment-2371 [New Post] In My Perfect World… – via @twitoaster http://www.mikesouth.com/julie-meadows/i

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By: juliemeadows https://mikesouth.com/julie-meadows/in-my-perfect-world-2969/#comment-2169 Fri, 16 Oct 2009 02:22:21 +0000 http://www.mikesouth.com/julie-meadows/in-my-perfect-world-2969/#comment-2169 Thank you, Hunter! Good point about what “…good things that “believers” have done.”

Actually, a coworker also illustrated that point today. His mother often falls victim to radical spam mail and then forwards it on to her intelligent son, thinking she, herself, is spreading something intelligent. He usually does not respond, but today he did. The e-mail’s title was “Why Jews Are Better Than Muslims”. Ew…

He wrote back, quite nicely… “Hey, Mom, just so you know… there is a small group of Muslims with crazy ideas, and… you know, if something catastrophic happened to them, I wouldn’t shed a tear, but similarly, there are small groups in every religion that are too crazy to understand. It does not mean all Muslims are bad. Every religion has a percentage of decent people who follow it’s simpler designs…” etc… Well said, I think. And to you, too… well said. 🙂

What Indian nation do you come from?

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By: Hunter https://mikesouth.com/julie-meadows/in-my-perfect-world-2969/#comment-2167 Fri, 16 Oct 2009 00:09:36 +0000 http://www.mikesouth.com/julie-meadows/in-my-perfect-world-2969/#comment-2167 Julie, What a wonderful post and a wonderful concept. Your views on religion mirror my thoughts exactly. Reminds me of a final paper I turned in for an elective that I titled “The Religion of our Forefathers”. I quoted some (at the time) little-known quotes from Thomas Jefferson and others. My favorite being the one where Jefferson tells his nephew (paraphrased) “Go ahead and read the Bible, if you decide you don’t believe it, at least you get some good moral lessons”. The instructor was somewhat offended, since she was actually a member of the clergy, but I still got an A 🙂

Being raised in the bible belt, and brought up in church, I’ve seen so much hypocrocy and found so many falacies that it made me begin to question my “beliefs”. I soon found that they weren’t really MY beliefs, but what others TOLD me to believe. However (and this is a HUGE point), I’ve also seen many of the good things that “believers” have done. Besides the hypocrits, I’ve known people who stand by their beliifs regardless of the consequences. Being a man of principle, I have to respect that, no matter what the motivation. I can’t fault them for a belief that I don’t agree with, especially when it costs me nothing for them to have their faith. (again, as Jefferson said, “it neither picks my pocket nor breaks my leg”).

By the way, I also liked the reference to “the great spirit”. Seems we share a similar heritage, just a different nation.

Thanks for the post, Julie

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By: juliemeadows https://mikesouth.com/julie-meadows/in-my-perfect-world-2969/#comment-2163 Tue, 13 Oct 2009 03:31:24 +0000 http://www.mikesouth.com/julie-meadows/in-my-perfect-world-2969/#comment-2163 “Defiled or immaculate. Dirty or pure. These are concepts we form in our mind… Without a rose we cannot have garbage; and without garbage, we cannot have a rose… The wealth of one society is made of the poverty of the other… We should not imprison ourselves in concepts. The truth is that everything is everything else… And we are responsible for everything that happens around us.” – Thich Nhat Hanh The Heart of Understanding

So by that definition, I must be an idealist, because of the non-idealists, and that makes my idealism in perfect harmony with everything else. …or something like that. 😛

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By: juliemeadows https://mikesouth.com/julie-meadows/in-my-perfect-world-2969/#comment-2161 Tue, 13 Oct 2009 01:41:38 +0000 http://www.mikesouth.com/julie-meadows/in-my-perfect-world-2969/#comment-2161 Thank you, Angel.

Good point, backspace. Maybe you’re right. I love Buddhist teachings. I love the soft way they make sense out of the nonsensical. Actually, Thich Nhat Hanh is one of my favorite writers, as far as spiritual writing goes. I was turned onto him while working in a topless club in Dallas, Texas. A Sioux Indian on his way to India to study there spent three to four hours talking with me quietly under the blare of music, and before he left he went to his car and brought the book back for me. It’s called The Heart of Understanding It’s very good. I like what you quoted, too. I’ll have to pick up A History of Violence. Also, a friend of mine just finished A People’s History of the United States: 1492-Present by Howard Zinn and had to express how grateful he feels that our world is very different from the world of only, literally, thirty years ago, let alone a hundred and more. 🙂

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By: backspace https://mikesouth.com/julie-meadows/in-my-perfect-world-2969/#comment-2160 Mon, 12 Oct 2009 22:52:46 +0000 http://www.mikesouth.com/julie-meadows/in-my-perfect-world-2969/#comment-2160 maybe everything’s perfect the way it is now. even the ancient books speak of *both* heaven and hell so one can’t exist without the other. the trick for me these days is to strive for spiritual balance by acknowledging and accepting the dual existence that exists in nature. Maybe that smells like Buddhist nonsense to some people but i find this belief helps me sleep at night. lol! if it’s not perfect now then surely social and technological evolutions force us to strive for a *more* perfect world. In any case everything’s gonna be fine.

“Some of the evidence has been under our nose all along. Conventional history has long shown that, in many ways, we have been getting kinder and gentler. Cruelty as entertainment, human sacrifice to indulge superstition, slavery as a labor-saving device, conquest as the mission statement of government, genocide as a means of acquiring real estate, torture and mutilation as routine punishment, the death penalty for misdemeanors and differences of opinion, assassination as the mechanism of political succession, rape as the spoils of war, pogroms as outlets for frustration, homicide as the major form of conflict resolution—all were unexceptionable features of life for most of human history. But, today, they are rare to nonexistent in the West, far less common elsewhere than they used to be, concealed when they do occur, and widely condemned when they are brought to light.” Steven Pinker A History of Violence

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By: Angel Delight https://mikesouth.com/julie-meadows/in-my-perfect-world-2969/#comment-2159 Mon, 12 Oct 2009 16:44:56 +0000 http://www.mikesouth.com/julie-meadows/in-my-perfect-world-2969/#comment-2159 Good post Julie. 🙂

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