When most guys have to come up with plans for date night they cringe. Sure there is the old standby “dinner and a movie” but women want creativity. Women want to feel special and unique and you aren’t going to accomplish that by just taking them out to eat. You need to think outside of the box if you want to get laid at the end of the night.
I mean come on, we all know that’s what dating is about anyway, right?
Organizing a good date is a creative process that can take a lot of time, especially if you want to do it right.
Make a plan
It’s pretty hard to organize a special date without having a proper plan. Of course, improvising can be interesting, but without at least some experience in it, your chances of failure are quite high. That’s why you must have a detailed plan for your upcoming date.
At first, choose a few places you will visit together. It will add some diversity to your romantic evening. Spending all the time in one place, you will not get the desired emotional effect. By the way, when preparing the plan, don’t forget that different activities can be exhausting, so it’s better to mix active parts of your date with quiet ones.
Also be sure to prepare some topics for conversation. Always try to find out as much information about your girlfriend’s interests as possible. Look for hobbies or unusual and interesting facts about her life. If she plays any musical instrument, talk about famous people, who do the same, and discuss the success they achieved. During a conversation show your admiration of her hobbies. Russian girls always appreciate such kinds of compliments.
Preparations before the date
After making a plan, think of what you need to implement it. Plan the financial expenses in advance. By the way, if you want to spend an unusual evening with your woman, do not to offer her to pay for herself; you can let her do it only if she wants.
Be sure to take care of your appearance. Remember that some elements of clothing may not fit each other. Your clothes also must be ironed and clean, as well as body. Use a perfume.
Here are some ideas for the unusual date
- Surprise your girl with new music
Look for upcoming concerts and select a band that plays interesting music. Perhaps you will find a new favorite artist too. Or maybe both of you will never listen to such music again. But in any case, it will be an interesting and original pastime.
- Take a very long walk across your city
Start your way from one end of your city and go as far as you can, stopping at a café to have a snack and relax on the way. This tour will also help you notice more scenic places that you have never seen before.
It’s better to take a taxi on your way back because both of you will be pretty tired. And don’t forget to tell the girl to put on comfortable shoes. She probably will not be glad to walk a few miles on high heels.
- Try something that you never did before
Why not try a dance lesson for beginners or a seminar on motivation? Combine pleasure with something useful!
- Play computer games
Somehow, people began to think that girls don’t like playing computer games, and this is fundamentally wrong. Some love them, even more than guys. This is really the case with MMO’s like World of Warcraft. It’s crazy just how many females actually play. So ask your girlfriend if she is one of those who can’t miss a chance to play a good video game. She may get revved up with the friendly challenge of a good game and it may be just what you need to get her in the sack.